One last thing, do not share any more info about what you are doing w/your life, especially your career. Do not provide him w/the names of the papers, etc. Also, do not share w/him any extracurricular activities that you are hoping to get D12 into or what your D20 is doing. Why? Because he's going to use that info against you and state that you have this fantastic job that pays extremely well and will want to lower child support and any other monies he owes you.
I know you want to share w/him because of your long history together, but you can't, at least not right now. I know you want to show him that you've survived and are doing well, but this is not the time to share. You have to face the fact that he's jealous of what you are doing w/your life and he's not happy right now because he was left with what I call "responsibilities" that he needs to finally take care of.
He is not your friend. He is out to get what he can and he will do whatever it takes to do it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
