I think I fear that if I completely drop MLC from the narrative I might be incapable of having any compassion for him at all. Also I feel like certain posters keep prodding me to analyze all my past behavior and what I did to contribute to the sitch. MLC is all about accepting that there is nothing you could have done to prevent H making such destructive choices at this time in his life. That is an extremely confusing message at the start of a new chapter in the lives of the LBS.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
