Need help. Jefe's always confused. Pt 6

[Ahoy]

Jefe, about your question on the other thread -- you can't do anything for the kids about missing their mom at home, but you can do something to make their time alone with you as fun as possible and build new memories. I'm in the same place with my daughter, as you know. She was crying about not being a family at the holidays, and I told her we'd build new memories around the holiday music that now makes her cry. So we made cookies last night and decorated the house and had a lot of fun. It's hard to do that all the time, because normal live intervenes, but I've found it to be helpful. And you're right, who would want these selfish WAS right now, anyway. More and more I realize that he is not a prize to be won.