Thanks Little. I wish I knew "what works". It really requires quite a bit of mindreading, doesn't it? The times I think he is warming up and coming toward me, I find out that he has a slew of OWs or is whining to friends about how in love with one of the OWs he is. Without spying it is so hard to know what is truly going on. And even with spying I don't know what is really in his head/heart.
I think DR says to make a list of signs things are going better and look for those signs. What do you think of that?
