I'm no expert, but to me DBing boils down to this.

1. You have zero control over your WAW. Stop trying to fix her, you can't. She will eventually settle down either for or against th emarriage.

2. This is a marathon. You will find new reserves of strength and patience.

3. Detach and GAL immediately! That is vital for your survival whether your W comes back to you or not.

Ex Rzrback
Me 43 Her 44
D11, D15
T21, M19
BD 9/9/2014
Piecing

Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood