Thank you Maybell. That's exactly the kind of feedback I need. I keep telling myself over and over to focus on myself. I know it's an excuse... But it's hard when we're around each other so much. I just have to keep focusing on myself. That is my ultimate challenge. I've tried to read other threads and I feel my insight isn't very helpful. But I will offer support for sure!! Thanks again!!
H: 43 W: 39 Married: 11 years Together: 18 years 1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation 2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce No kids EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over