Thank you Maybell. That's exactly the kind of feedback I need.
I keep telling myself over and over to focus on myself. I know it's an excuse... But it's hard when we're around each other so much.
I just have to keep focusing on myself. That is my ultimate challenge.
I've tried to read other threads and I feel my insight isn't very helpful. But I will offer support for sure!!
Thanks again!!


H: 43
W: 39
Married: 11 years
Together: 18 years
1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation
2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce
No kids
EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over