What the heck did I miss???? OMG! I thought you were done after our texts this morning. Geesh... I didn't realize it was continuing.
Heather, I am, by far, no expert... but please don't give him what he wants. He is looking for this engagement. Don't give it to him. I vowed to not give in. Well... I initiated a little bit, but I tried hard not to bite. It makes you feel so much more powerful not to bite. Don't babe!
It is so weird that both of us are experiences some of the same things right now. The pet questions, the kindness and inquiries about life...
Ugh.. it can be exhausting to our already overwhelming lives. So... please, try not to engage. Give it time before you respond, if you have to. And when you do, make it unemotional. BECAUSE, he will make it about you.. I know you have these emotions to address. I SO get it. Don't do it when he is trying to bait you. It gives him the upper hand. You don't want that! You have worked to hard, come to far to even give him an ounce of what you've accomplished.
I understand the emotion of it, truly, I do. I hope to see you soon. We have so much to catch up on. We are in such similar positions now. And, we are embracing this early winter weather, right?! Let's go, Buffalo!!
I never heard about the micro question from last thread I asked??
