I did when I first noticed ...I said oh I see you removed some of the clothes great thanks did you need me to take them to goodwill
H said no
After that I keep wondering where the clothes went?
About leaving... H has not brought it up on his own ever...it has always been in response to my questions or emotions or blowups... Well once after BD he let me know that he was thinking about leaving... and he acted on that by getting a PO Box.
Each time after has been mostly worded like "if you want me to leave" " it seems like you would be better off if I left' " if you will be happier I will leave" "If it harder for me to be here I can leave" "do you want me to leave" "
H has never mentioned D to me I've brought it up but not H.
Anger , H has not shown hardly any anger, we have both cried I have shown a lot of anger. When I force H responds with sadness and confusion then " I don't know what I want "I don't know what to do" " I guess I need to figure it out...think about it" " do you want me to leave"
Its like he wants to avoid/ignore US. And he sometimes acts surprise when I bring this all up?
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
