To be honest, I am feeling convicted about using that as a bargaining chip Wonka. I do not want my W fearing me, nor do I want to be the d!ck in this situation.

I think it may be too late to go back on that, but do you have any advice on making it right?

UpperCut
Me: 28 W: 25
Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs
Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home)
S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15)
No kids