Is this really worth it?? Money-wise? Just so you feel better holding the Sword of Damocles over your W's throat with this perceived "threat"?
Who "wins"? I just don't agree with this approach at all.
Think about it.
Please clarify, are you saying you think I should pursue damages from OM, or that I should give W a better deal without the "threat" of a lawsuit?
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids