Thanks fthnluv. The mediation agreement was just spelling out that we intended to use that mediator, we both intend to cooperate, etc. No specifics in it, just a 'getting started' agreement. I don't think he has done anything with that yet at all.

And thanks, Job, I planned not to say a word. I'm waiting to see how long it takes for him to bring it up. He was just here, prepping the snow blower, and already left...not a word about it, and not much conversation at all between us. Typical. I'm not going to say anything yet, at least not until after I've met with financial person and attorney.

It's really weird how I keep finding out in strange ways what he is doing, and know things before he even knows that I know them! I do believe there is some perhaps divine intervention going on here, like I'm getting intel, warnings to prepare me. Has happened quite a few times in my sitch. So odd...

I sent that letter right back to that divorce-chasing attorney with my comments on it. I hope HE actually sees it, and not just whoever is opening the mail at the office.

I am doing well today. I think this - anything - is better than the endless limbo. I have a life to live, after all. Was just reading about Diane Sawyer's husband who just passed away. He met Diane when he was 54. He said, "Life began at 54." Yeah, that's somethin'. :-)


Me 53, XH 57
M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids
BD June '13
H moved out July '13
Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14
H filed for D Nov. '14
D March '15