Sandi: Thanks for the check in. This wouldnt be a talk to try to convince her of anything. It would be a talk to state that I am fine with, even waiting for her to move out, so that I can move on. I'm still unsure if I should make some kind of comment to this effect: "I understand you are planning to move out after Xmas. I wish you had done this sooner." Something like that, to indicate that I am in fact ready to move on.
I look at it the same as when the LBH is "telling" his WAW that he is working on himself. He's making changes, etc. Trust me, you don't want to say anything about what you are doing, going to do, wish you had done. Just do it. As Zew said, she's not listening. If she was, she wouldn't believe you or wouldn't care. She has to see it happen. And, as I keep preaching, she has to experience some kind of loss.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
