Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2

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Seems like I shook her tree, she wasn't expecting me to speak with an atty, but she isn't backing down from her waywardness.

I presented her with my proposed distribution of assets where she basically takes her new car with negative equity, her student loans, stuff bought with the stdt loans and some family heirlooms/antiques and I keep the house, my retirement accounts, my paid off truck, most everything in the house, our joint credit card debt, and no spousal support. She didn't like taking the underwater car, so I said "ok, atty suggested I do this plan or he thinks I have a good alienation of affection/criminal conversation case against OM."

She backed off and said "where do you want me to sign." The spewing started shortly after that though. "I can't believe you're threatening me!"

It seems OM doesn't know she has told me everything. She said he cheats on his GF all the time and makes up stories and he is prob sitting there thinking she is just doing the same. "Little does he know we are sitting here and you're talking about suing him." She said her actions are her fault and neither him nor me should be punished for her mistakes. I said "he knew you were married and made the choice to ruin our marriage too. I didn't want this and I don't want to go there but I have to do what is right to protect myself."

It ended with us looking each other deeply in the eyes and her saying "it's crazy how much a couple months can change everything"

I called her a nickname and she started crying. We left the restaurant and she said "keep in touch if you need me to sign anything."