You got it on the prayers, UC, but why *are* you meeting to talk about this, rather than just having the attys present it to her?
Too late now... Just got done discussing with W. Atty advised I could discuss with her or he could write a letter. I went with the cheaper option.
UpperCut Me: 28 W: 25 Married: 4 yrs Together: 7 yrs Dday: 9/14 (W ends affair & comes home) S: 12/14 (W restarted affair 1/15; moved near OM 2/15) No kids