Sometimes I feel like my answer is to end my M, to ask H to leave, sometimes I have a nagging feelings that I'm ignoring that "answer".
I feel like if I dont end it, that H will continue to linger in limbo and not make any real decisions about our M. H does not want the end of our M to be on him, I feel like sometimes he is just trying to wait me out, to let me get to the end of the rope and leave. I feel like he wants me to file for D so he can say "I did not leave, I was "trying", she ended it" he wants none of the responsibility of our M ending.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW