Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD - pt. 2

[gogofo]

My concern is that you'll move back in because everything is warm and cozy, it's Holiday time, and everyone is feeling loving.

If the problems that brought you here aren't dealt with, they will revisit you, just like the ghosts of Christmas past.

The pace of it also has me feeling a little nervous or cautious about moving in. My plan is that when we hit the goal about getting my house in it's place we will talk about me moving in, not just doing it automatically.

I plan on having a temperature check kind of talk and see how things are different.

Since I backed off the pressure it seems like she is putting in some work and maybe made some progress with the things she needs to deal with. I feel she is looking at me different because of her actions towards me, a big one being asking to come stay the night. She also has been smiling and laughing a whole lot more.

I don't know if it was feeling the same or worse after signing the papers to start the D process, but it seems like she is different in a better more positive way for our M.

Not much new to update, we have just been steady with the emotions and being around each other. It is a very welcome place right now instead of the roller coaster ride I had us on.