still holding on - 5

[u-turn]

I received an e-mail from W this morning out of the blue. She really hasn't talked to me in a couple of weeks.

"I am trying to make it work, I am trying to be there for everyone. I am trying to actively engage and show I care….I am trying to help….because I still care enough to take care of you when you are sick.

I am frustrated, tired and don’t want to fight anymore but cannot continue to live like this."

I then received another:
"You say you love me/us but I think that it is comfortable and what we know. You say you can get past it but no matter what there will always be doubt and I don’t blame you. I am not worthy of your time or your love"

I'm not sure why she is opening up now, but I think it is because of our mutual detachment.

I'm not sure how to respond to this. I feel like I want to make a case of trying to work all of this out, but also feel like I should let her feel what she feels (though I don't know if she will just feel like I'm abandoning us).

I seem to have the same feelings as her. Just quietly fed up with feeling this way. But cannot get on the same page to work this out.

Any thoughts or opinions?
Thanks!!