Newcomer Living in Hell 2

[labug]

I read your threads and I don't see any spew from your W. Can you point me in the right direction?

I do see lots of mind reading.

i had an epithany yesterday. the person my W is right now is not who i want to be with.

So she lived with an angry person for several years and decided she didn't want to live like that anymore.

You've been at this for a few months and have decided she's not who you want to be with but you can't understand why she walked away from you.

What is it that's she's doing that makes you want to let go?

Who are you? What are your values? What kind of man do you want to be through this?

I think you could take a few days and really think about who you are and who you want to be cause right now, you're all over the place. That's not unusual but it helps to be able to choose a direction and work to get there.