Let's try this again

[woundedfool]

So how exactly does one work on the when it seems I'm back to where I started with an uninterested partner?

Sounds like mind reading creeping back.

The weekly date nights are no longer planned by him, he is not nearly as affectionate as he was and I pointed this all out in October and I've continued to see it spiral as time has progressed

Ok, tell us how you "pointed it out"?

it's hard when someone isn't trying like he was. Because I know he is capable of the behavior and actions that I need from him to help me move forward.

So how have you changed toward him? (think of in the spirit of rewarding good behaviors)

I've read DR multiple times and as recent as 2 weeks ago

OK, quiz time... Grab you notes from DR, and tell me what you have listed as your 2 or 3 "What you Want"(s).