great post. I am not there yet, but I hope to be. I heard somewhere - not sure anymore from whom - that you can't go around it, under it, or over it. You have to go through it. I guess we are all impatient to a degree. Even if the outcome is divorce, we want to know "how it will end", but this takes the focus off the "here and now". I find myself doing best when I am in the moment. When I focus on the uncertain future, I get into trouble. Like you said, we should keep on keepin' on.
