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Generally the explanations are never what I fear, which is "I just don't like you. I'm an inconsiderate person. Etc.


I think that's what most of us fear. It brings up our deepest fears about ourselves. We want it to be them, not us.

But when he says this,
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Him saying it's just who he is can't really be the truth, in my mind, because it just doesn't make any sense. What is "just who he is"?

you don't buy it. Why?

Why won't you believe that it's not you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss