I asked IC if I could ignore the messages and he told me I don't owe BF [censored] and that was fine if I wanted to. Just stop replying.

My thought was that I didn't want to explain myself and go into my emotions.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies