Hi friends, good to hear your words on the subject. Funny, one of my cards said: "It has been a wonderful 30 years, looking forward to the next 30 years with you". I also kept them for the kids....

I am working on a theory that I have WAY too much stuff. So I am filling up each box with stuff to sell. I am putting some stuff back into the house, but I am also taking stuff out. I am keeping the better/nicer stuff and getting rid of crap. How many of each item do I need?

Now the pile of self help books is both truly impressive and depressing all at the same time. I have so many. And I read them all, took them to heart and they didn't help. But learning to meditate did help. And this website. Being able to express my feelings and get feedback was invaluable. Still is.

Work is weird, they are reorganizing. My job may change a little and might get moved to another department. As you all know the VA is being "Worked on". I have no idea who I will be working for, and am hoping for the best outcome. At least my position isn't in danger.

Aloha!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!