"Believe none of what he says and 50% of what he does"
This is such a true statement, and one I've thought a lot about and that has even brought me some comfort a few times over the past couple of months.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
If your H is in an MLC, he really does believe what he says. It's his reality now.
I agree with this too. They are in their own, skewed (IMHO) reality and we get to deal with all the fallout from it. I know they have (or will have) stuff they have to deal with on their end too but when you are the LBS and dealing with the kids alone 90% of the time, as I am, it feels like he is making all the decisions that affect all of us and I am left cleaning up the mess from the destruction caused.
Me- 40 H- 41 S8, D5, S4 M 19 y T 23 Bomb drop 6/2013 H asked for/filed for D 9/2014 22 yo OW discovered 9/19/14 they're engaged and living together
