HI....I appreciate you taking the time to reply,

No, I do not have the energy ...I have already filed. I did a lot of work on myelf when he left for hte first time 4 years ago so if he came home I was ready if he didn't I was ready. He seemed like a different man.
This time -It was like he literately flipped a switch and started walking away from the M.

Tonight he told me to quit obsessing and MOVE ON! frown That hurt. He stops at nothing to hurt me...I don't even know what I have done.

I think he is mad I moved out...but I never got an explanation as to what the plan was ....why he did what he did...nothing...but he never stated any intentions of stopping me from moving out or apologizing.

I am not 100 % sure he is alcoholic. He does hide his drinking from me and kids and lies about and makes very poor choices.
And no one will tell him to quit he says.

So, how does he not remember how miserable he was when he lived with OW?? Was that a lie? Or does he not care now?

What is going on??

I am having a hard night tonight and I thank you ahead of time for some insight.

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