I was using Cadet's posting on my thread as a segue to offer comfort to LiveNow about H failing to include his pension in settlement talks.

MLC may induce "pension amnesia" but it is the responsibility of the LBS to be faithful to that financial reality.

M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou