Saw a new IC tonight. I liked him. We've identified some issues I need to work on to be a better, happier me and find the love I want, whether that's with BF or not.
I'm going to stop encouraging BF's sexual-oriented texts. It's really counter-intuitive to DB of any sort to be too available to him. I liked the way this IC -- being a man -- explained the logic of it to me, as far as male minds go. Going dark again and seeing what that brings.
However, both IC and I agree that a man that's well laid and happy with his greener grass doesn't solicit his ex for naughty vids. Heh. Small (petty, immature, smug) thrill for me. Maybe OW is a dead fish in bed. Who knows. Who cares.
Anyway. Onward and upward.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
