Does anyone know how I can proceed here while still following DB principles? I reread several sections of DR last night and all I can see is "after the LRT". She wont end the affair, sees nothing wrong with her actions, and (if I am to gather via BFF) sees herself as a prize that I have simply lost by not being happy enough. Even though she herself is miserable. There is certainly truth in that, but all I have done for the past 3 months is make progress in the right direction on all fronts.
Am I wrong to act on emotion right now? Should I initiate a talk tonight?
It just kills me that I am still portrayed (according to these texts from BFF) as hanging on, trying to win her back, pursuing etc etc. I have distanced myself from her as much as I possibly can with her still in the house and doing very little to pull her weight. I cant go any darker with her sleeping 15 feet away from me.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together