W's blabby BFF texted me this morning asking how Im doing
Maybe it's just me, but I don't think it is wise for the H to be talking to his WAW'S friends. She is your W's BFF, not yours. If you think she won't blab to your W, then you may be in for a rude awakening. She may appear to be showing you support, but don't kid yourself. Best not to share anything with her friends.
And there have been cases where this type of thing turned into the BFF pursuing her friends's LBH, so please be careful.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
