There's an entire section in DR about why you might not see changes yet. I don't have it with me, but look around page 180 plus or minus 20 pages. It's about seeing the small signs, adapting your strategy, etc. I'm not surprised he still thinks of you as interested in money, since it's only been three months. Make sure too that you really reduce your focus on money, not just in your communications with him.

My W left in September and practically lives with her OM. They appear to be in love. I meet my W once a month and exchange small talk by email 4-5 times a week. Yet, here I am, DBing in hope of a R. Look at the success stories at the top of my thread. Successful people have gone through much worse. Be patient. Adapt. Take courage.


M39 D6 D3 (at S)
S 2014-09
D 2016-09

"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.