H's MLC#6- Now its about ME!

[woundedfool]

So I told male friend, lunch with others only, no talking about his issues with his wife. We can talk about our favorite TV show -Scandal and the weather etc.

I felt this was dangerous and I need to avoid interacting with males who MAY be interested in being more then friends.

Even though my male friend insisted he is not interested in anything other then friendship.

I think you handled this appropriately. You have set clear boundaries, any overstepping (and that includes you) should be handled swiftly and with no ambiguity.

Only tip I would add, is just to to let this be a distraction to how you work on M.