I think for now I need to keep on my current path and if she makes a move, react however I need to.
I'm not so sure, Bunches. I'm worried in that in your wife's current agitated (desperate? entitled? manic??) state, I don't trust what she might try to do legally and financially. I think I'd be far more comfortable if you were leading the show here, to the extent that you can.
There is a truism around here that you cannot trust to leave the marriage in the hands of the person who doesn't have its best interests at heart right now.
