Others are providing good advice. Dating after divorce is often a train wreck for guys 'cuz we want to be validated and jump into things we are not ready to deal with. I've known a number of guys who have ended up in very difficult situations because they didn't wait until they were ready. Be happy with you and your life before looking for someone else. Dating sites are what you put into them...and they're also not the way we are used to looking for companionship. Profiles are much the same...everyone is happy, their cup is always half full and they love to laugh. The only way to really get a feel for a lady is to message with her or talk with her for a bit. You learn real quick whether this is someone you'd like to meet. Also dating foreign ladies (my experience has been with Filipina's lately but I was married to a HK Chinese) you must be aware of not only their past relationship situation but also their culture. You date a Filipina and you're dating her whole family! They send tons of money home and will continue to do so whether you like it or not. There's lots to be aware of. Also Filipina's arent' as concerned about age difference as we are in our culture...twenty year difference is not a biggie to many but you'll be dealing with culture, family and age...a big bag to carry. Anyway, look after you...and be good to you. There's always time Btw, I'm having dinner tomorrow night with a lovely Chinese lady who I met on Match a week ago and my last gf (Filipina) I met online and we were together for 1.5 years. Good things can happen...when you're ready for them
