Little, I have bits and pieces of information. If I have to go down the route sometime in the future that it is either me of the OM I want it to be factual. Do I think there is some kind of affair going on, yes. However I do not know if is a EA or PA. I have some evidence that she using some of money on someone (buying groceries and other small things) that do not make it to our house. I know she disappears a few times a week for hours at a time and always says she is shopping. This is a major red flag because my W for 20 years hates to shop and has done most of her shopping online. My kids are constantly asking where mom is and all I say is she is shopping.


W-44,M-57
Married 20
D-17,S-13
W and I own our own business and work together.