newbie needs help part 5

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wmwb123, yes she filed, I was served, yes I counter claimed! That was 4 months ago! We both agreed to mediation at the same time. nothing has happened! We have had 2conversations in last 3 months but I have left it up to her to move forward! She has done nothing! Now she wants to wait until after holidays to talk about it with kids! I told her a few weeks ago after a little emotional conversation to have her find a place to move to and get out! She has been much nicer since then! I just go through so much inner turmoil on this! I don't know if her moving out would be a benefit or not! I think she is fighting depression but hides it well. I am not sure she really wants to move out! I am not sure but she may be having second thoughts. Just a tuff deal rt now with so much at stake