You know that's not going to work right? I mean you just begged her for a hug. It makes you seem clingy.
You're probably right. Since low affection was one of the stated issues. I guess I am just trying to see what will work and what won't. If it doesn't, it doesn't. I will back off and continue to work on myself until she feels ready to talk, etc. I still haven't got a clue exactly as what she wants to do. There has been no relationship talk, hugging, kissing, or "I love yous" since I stopped last month. I am continuing to read things to help myself, journaling,and working on GAL stuff. We'll see what happens, but you are most likely right.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
