The shop is closed. He is choosing to work to be paid so he will get a full weeks paycheck. So it is his choice to miss the vacation. Which is fine if it would have been his choice in the beginning vs planning it up until a week before.
Maybell - I do come here when I have problems that I need help with responding to. I've tried to give others advice and not focus on my thread all the time to consume others with my happiness. I have posted good things and there have been a lot of minor things I dont post. But the things I do are things I either A haven't dealt with because I haven't been in this situation before or B issues that we have had before prior to BD that I'm trying to do my part in resolving differently.
As far as my H to answer your question from last night. I'm pretty sure he was depressed around the time of BD but I didn't see it at the time or maybe chose not to see it. He does not see IC.
I will post more later. I was just trying to update real quick while im waiting in line to pick up S from school.