T shows up here every time she has a hill she's thinking of dying on, and we here never hear about the good times. It raises the question for me of how committed SHE is to the marriage now. I get it, it's reasonable... But maybe addressing that would help her cope with all these bumps with less urgency?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15