My observation, W now clearly understands I am not friendly to her b/c she continues to date while we are married. But for some reason she thinks I will not help our children when they need it. My children are everything to me, and so I don't know why W has this impression of me. I am not being included in convos of what is going on with d18's financial stress, and I just wish I be included.
Lotsa mind reading there...
But they do get ideas like that in their head until they start to hit bottom. My stbxw thought I would tear up a name sign out youngest made for her when she left the note ending our M, so she made sure to take it...I've not done anything like that to other people's stuff, maybe my own stuff a few times, but not things the kids made, etc. Who knows...
So what can you do to be more involved in what's going on with D18? Do you need to have W involved?
Maybe call D18 yourself?
So what are your thoughts on TG's answer?
Last edited by TSquared2; 11/19/1404:32 PM.
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