just catching up with your thread, some parallels to mine sounds like we've been at this about the same time as well. Check out my posts as it looks like I did a lot of the same things you did at the begining, the people here are great as you've found out. The most important thing to remember (and boy do I try) is no matter what you do YOU can only change YOU and the relationships YOU have with others. You can build your relationship with your kids (again see my thread) and you can change your behavior but theres nothing you can do, think, say or otherwise project that can get you into or change your W's mind. Just work on you and hang in there.
And never forget sandis rules (said by someone who sometimes forgets all of them - DOH!)
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
