It's worth the extra effort to wait and make sure that that everyone is solid and sure of themselves and what they want. It would be heartbreaking to move too fast and then end up in the same place.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
