H's MLC#6- Now its about ME!

[2BHappy]

Can someone tell me what PMA means and or direct me to the post that has the Abbreviations?

AND...there is a man who is also having problems with his wife, we are friends and I had stopped talking to him, since I felt like IF we both were single people we might would date.

I told him we have to be VERY careful since we are both in vunverable situations, and I made it clear that I would NEVER cheat! But I felt like this could be EA and I'm nervous..so I aovided him for months...and then he got a new job away from our work where we met, so I felt safer talking to him,,,but now he wants to talk more and more and wants to meet for lunch...

How do I make sure I'm not involved in a EA, I can be friends with a male, but I want to make sure he is not getting something other then friends from our friendship and I want to NOT be an outlet from the issues he is having with his wife.

I've been VERY direct with him, but I feel this underlying something from him,,,,so I'm thinking I may need to tell him we cannot be friends:(

I dont want my friendship to him to interfer with his marriage in ANY WAY or fashion at all!!!!

I know the pain of being cheated on.

AND if for some reason we remain friends, do I need to tell my H that I'm going out for lunch or dinner with a male friend? I dont want H to think I'm up to something or hiding anything!

I did not tell him when this friend worked with me, cause when we went to lunch it was with other co-workers.

Now he wants to go to lunch just us, and he started back calling me weekly.