This is hilarious, actually. I had time to ponder on my 45 minute ride to work. This has actually super helped with my detachment.

Things escalated and he ended up sending me a naughty video. Long story short, it was obvious (to me, having been in his daily life for so long) that it was made a year or more ago and was not new. In it he says, "this is for you".

So, follow me here: I've never seen this video, he says "this is for you" and it was made over a year ago. When we were solidly in an R. Who the hell sends their ex -- that they cheated on -- a video they made for the person they cheated on them with?

What a skeezer. LOL!

I don't know what's up with this man. I truly don't.

I don't think he misses me or the physical intimacy but clearly he's gone full promiscuous mode. If he IS in an R with OW, then he's cheating on her, too. If he's not, he's operating with his boy parts and little else.

WOW DETACHMENT, HOW THE HECK ARE YA!?

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies