Your wife was the one who filed, right? Did you file a counter complaint? You pushing the divorce forward may put pressure on her to realize what she's losing. I don't know. Hopefully you can get some input from the veterans here.
M 16 T 17 W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14 ILYBNIL 5/14 A discovered 6/14 D papers served via USPS 8/14 Filed my response 9/14 D final 5/15...