Thanks Sandi, I'm not very good with writing and expressing my situation but I will try my best She phoned me yesterday to ask if I was going to call at her home after work to see the kids and I don't want to read to much into it but her tone on the phone was much softer much like when we were a couple They was also a day last week she called at my place and she said her feet were cold and she took off her shoes to warm them next to the fire and for some reason I got hold of her feet to rub them to warm them and that made her smile Friday could be interesting as we are both invited to a mutual friends birthday party I have up until now stayed away from socialising at the same place as I could not stand the thought of seeing her with another man