Thanks Zed. If I'm being honest looking back at the situation it did seem like he might have actually been concerned. Maybe because I drank a little more than usual the night before! Thanks for making me look at the interaction again from a new perspective.
So one thing I really need to start focusing on is work. It seems that money is a big factor for him (feels like I only want him for his $$?!?!) I really wish I knew what I wanted to do, not a great job market where I live. Not really looking forward to going back to work full time, this is a struggle for me but something I really need to work on, especially since I may end up single and only have myself to rely on in the future.
This afternoon I came home from running an errand, he was putting a new door handle on the garage door. It wasn't something that had to be done....guess he wanted something to do. Also bought a few other things for the house. Positives right? Then he was going through some bills he had to mail and handed one to me that had my name on it and says "this is yours." It was for a Dr. visit for D13, I gave it back to him and said as much. It was $8....lol!! Just a little ridiculous to me since the money all comes from the same pot.
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
Thanks for making me look at the interaction again from a new perspective.
