Regrettably I took W out for a weekend away ... was a moment between her on and off with OW and I wanted to try to win her back. It was ok .... looking back more of a mistake, was me pursuing and I really should have stayed dark ... set me back months I feel.
The card, well with your sitch I agree with job .. plain generic, more about "its the though that counts" angle ... but absolutely expect NOTHING in return. Send it for you, because that's the person you are .. not to get any reaction from him ... even if he does react .. let that go too.
