John what is happening is normal and part of the process. The rejection is so great that u wonder if anyone will ever be attracted to u again. Dating too soon is selfish. That person may fall in love and u will definitely will not be ready. That person will b hurt. Just so you can deal with your own pain. Learn to be alone. Let the walls cave in on you. It will hurt but it wont kill you.

I have been there.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden