o saying i would like to date again, but cannot in good conscience do this while married.
You might want to keep that tidbit to yourself. She doesn't need to know whether you intend to date or not and, if she's in a mood, her goal may be to prevent you getting anything you want.
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The fine point is defining exactly when we are no longer married.
I'm guessing that it's pretty clear from a legal standpoint. Have you sought any counsel in that regard? I'm with your sister on this. You should know what you are getting into financially.