So I have a dilemma and am so very angry but trying to handle this in the best DB way possible
H and I have made plans to leave next week for the mountains to see some of my family and stay through the weekend. Well H sends me a text today saying the boys and I can leave whenever we want. He isn't going, he can't afford to go and his boss can't pay him to be off Thursday and Friday and he can't afford to miss work.
So I haven't responded besides an okay. It was all I could muster up. I am fuming. He had no problem going on how many vacations all summer and standing the boys and I up for an 8 day cruise out of the country so I took 2 young ones alone. I mean whatever it was no big deal but the principle is how can you afford all of that all summer and now you can't afford to miss 2 days at work?!
I'm just so over getting the short end of the stick. I want to feel like the boys and I are a priority. He made every vacation with that family multiple times. But now his own he can't. He told me nothing will ever be good enough for me and all I care about is money! WTh! I said please tell me one time that I've brought up money with you since you came back. He said well you haven't but I know you think that. I said please do not put words in my mouth.
Anyway. I'm just really frustrated. Going to go home from work and take a hot shower and go to bed. Nothing good will come of this tonight. I should have been used to being a single parent over the summer. It's just disappointing they the man that came home in August has seemed to have vanished lately and Thais not something I'm willing to put up with.
